​Why Your Body Treats Your Family Tree Like a Minefield

Ever wonder why you feel exhausted before the family gathering even starts?
If you live with CPTSD, your nervous system has been conditioned to treat these environments as high-alert zones. This isn't "drama"—it’s a biological survival response

When you enter a space with people who caused or ignored your early pain, your brain triggers the following responses:
 

• Hyper-vigilance: Tracking every tone of voice or facial twitch.
• The Fawn Response: Automatically shrinking your needs to keep the peace.
• Emotional Flashbacks: Feeling like a helpless child again, even if the "threat" is just a subtle comment.

 
Healing isn't about "getting over it" so you can attend every dinner. It’s about honoring the signal your body is sending you. You are allowed to set a timer, stay in a hotel, or choose not to go at all.
 
If you would like to explore this more, you can book online for an initial telephone conversation with me. Then, if you are ready, we can look at booking an initial assessment.
 
I look forward to hearing from you.
 
Chris Warren-Dickins
Psychotherapist in New Jersey and the United Kingdom
 
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